Tag: relationship
-
Postcards from Europe: The warmth and kindness of strangers
Day 2 – The warmth and kindness of strangers After a lovely morning in Amsterdam we covered another 413 miles by train arriving in Nuremberg in the early evening. Navigating a new place and finding our accommodation wasn’t helped by having to walk through a loud tunnel/underpass with lots of traffic and the fact that…
-
What I wish I’d known from the start: 5 reflections on overwhelmed and dysregulated children
When I first started teaching, the term “dysregulated” wasn’t even part of our vocabulary. In the early 2000s, we didn’t talk about overwhelmed children, nor did we understand the neuroscience behind intense emotions in the way we do today. Emotional distress wasn’t typically considered a valid reason for challenging behaviour and instead viewed as lack…
-
Breaking Free: Unlocking Change by Overcoming Invisible Barriers
I’d been married to my husband for over 15 years before I discovered a very strange rule he holds about picnics and, as it turns out, lunch in general. What on earth does this have to do with invisible obstacles in life you might ask? Stick with this story – I promise it is connected!…
-
When thinking about the future feels overwhelming
When you look at what’s coming up for you and your child in coming years it can feel scary. Especially if they’re getting more independent or not on the same path as most of their peers. Knowing there are risks, but not being able to protect them. Knowing they will make mistakes, but not wanting…
-
3 simple, but powerful questions for when your child is struggling
One of the hardest things as a parent is seeing your child struggle. It’s even more difficult if they struggle with everyday things most children are expected to “just do.” As well as their struggles you then have to deal with the big emotions this may bring up for them – for many children this…
-
The best day out you never knew you had!
Once upon a time we took one of our teenagers (and friend) on holiday. We were based on a brilliant site about 40 mins outside Amsterdam – it’s got a swimming pool with amazing slides and a theme park on site as well as a whole heap of other activities. We spent the bulk of…